oh i see..

damn it! hostel is konon-nya upgrading internet server, so i hardly can view facebook without refreshing it for a few times, not to mention playing any facebook game! well is time for me to cut down all these, i am not 'jia jia' with the words i said to You! i definitely will try my best to work it out! so now i shall void my post of 'only one'.

when i was chatting with my pet, we came to the issue of second child syndrome! so i coincidentally came to this issue again when i was blog hoping (oh man, this is my so call trying my best to work it out, when revision is this friday, my exam is like sooo near!)

so this is my findings on second child syndrome

an emotional scarring condition.
Middle children are known for ending up with the things that are too big for the baby in the family and too small for the oldest.
it is a known fact the youngest and oldest are treated differently than the middle child for the oldest is the first child aka favorite
and the smallest is the baby aka the last child known for getting whatever they desire because they are the "baby"

Middle Children sydrome includes
neglect, forgotten dates, and sometimes in bad cases forgetting they even exist.


a first born: OH i just got this GREAT new car!
a middle child: oh...i have to wait until my sister wrecks hers...then i can have that and they will get her a new one
a first born: oh Middle Child Syndrome, i see.


and also this

When a middle child - typically of a family of three kids who are close in age - feels left out or neglected.

Because the bigger sibling is the first born and typically an over-achiever, they are the most important and get the most privileges. A younger sibling is the 'baby' of a family and gets away with more as well as being the most looked-after. Middle-child syndrome starts when the middle child is squeezed between these two and have trouble finding their 'niche' in the family.

Middle children will sometimes...
-misbehave to get attention
-go with the flow
-work as little as possible
-be less parent-dependent then their siblings
-become the 'loner' of the family, not participate in family events unless told to.
-play the peacemaker
-be more likely to go to a friend for advice than a parent
-be very creative

In short its where the older child gets all the awards, the younger gets all the love, and the middle gets nothing.


Oldest: Hey I just turned 16!
Mom: Lets go pick you out a car!
Oldest: Yay!

-1 1/2 yrs later-

Middle: Hey I just turned 16!
Mom: Oh.. er.. well we're still paying for your sib's car, so you'll have to just borrow from her when you can..
Middle: >.>

-2 yrs later-

Youngest: Hey! I just turned 16!
Mom: Yay! And I just finished paying for the other car! Lets go get you a car!
Middle: Hey! I should be the next one to get a new car!
Youngest: but its MY birthday
middle: Thats stupid
youngest: MOMMY SHE JUST CALLED ME STUPID!!
mom: Be nice to your little sister on her birthday!! Come on, birthday-girl! Lets go get that car!
Youngest: WOO!

i do admit that my 2nd sis was using my old phone and i able to get a new phone which i currently using.but i got my this phone on 24th of Oct 2006, which was 3 years ago! so of cause i happily enjoy my new phone without considering my sis feeling!

and my 3rd sis (which is not the youngest but consider youngest among the females and my bro existed in this world sometimes later, so my 3rd sis still will continue have the youngest child treatment, and her genius brain (which only good in study but not other things, i am not jealous ok! because i do admit that she is a smartass) and FYI she has her own '1st hand' handphone 7310 supernova. and my 2nd sis still surviving with her Nokia 6300 which is my handphone's father.

But now, i did realize it is so UNFAIR and it definitely feel very sucky to use 2nd hand product! although is second child's fate.sorry sis, no matter what i sure will help you to get a brand new laptop next year. Good thing about my second sis, she doesn't complain and make a big fuss about this!

i want to get a camera, but with the fact that i m IT dummies, and i try to search online they have too many camera jargon which i don't understand!i want a camera which has super good anti hand-shake, so that no matter how shaky my hand is or the item is moving, i still able to capture it NICELY, and if possible it is water resistance.it will be ideal if it is blue in colour, you know??? I don't want a DSLR cause i m not a professional photographer and i do not like to carry it around, i believe it would be very burdensome! so any model that suit me? or any thing that i should be aware of when buying a camera??